Wednesday, April 30, 2003
There seems to be a whole lot of drama on this blog. I actually got 36 comments from that one post! Haha. I know it's entertaining for most of you, but I have to apologize to all my friends/family that are viewing/reading this. There's a lot of vulgar language on here, so I know it's a little disconcerting to have to see that. Don't worry, I will be deleting (and will continue to delete) most of the comments that are unfit to be posted here. This anonymous person, aka.../??/Caligirl, really enjoys getting ripped on. Lemme just sum this section up with a few words: police record, fakes emails, fakes birth certificates, steals SSNs, identity theft, etc. I wouldn't be surprised if we see her picture on the FBI's 10 most wanted in a year. No joke. There's just so much stuff. It's really amazing. All this and she acted like such a sweet and caring friend.
I feel sorry for her friends/family that still care about her, because from her track record it seems as though she will just end up hurting them. Her parents and brother seem really nice. It's awful to know that they somehow might get affected legally if things go to court. It's not even their fault. I know her boyfriend and her boyfriend's family are probably brainwashed as well. They just care about her, just like we all used to. That's why it was so hard for us to believe everything we have heard/seen. Man, I considered this girl as family for awhile there...And for her 2-3 friends, I really wish I could say something reassuring. But we've all been there before and she'll just crush you. If you are still friends with her...be diligent, watch your backs, consistently check your credit, change your SSN. Seriously. This advice was given to me two years ago and I was to naïve to listen.
I guess I should be mad at the drama that she's causing on here, but I'm not. I was furious at first, but then it got really old. And I started feeling apathetic. Besides, I was reading her comments and it's pretty obvious why she's doing this:
1. She is jealous of everybody...especially of her ex-friends that are getting closer to each other. 4 out of the 5 girls that went to Napa were one of her closest friends at one time. It's funny how ALL the pieces have come together. It's scary how much we know...things that we would have never learned if all of this didn't come out.
2. She's got nothing better to do, but to stir up drama. She enjoys twisting the truth. This is what she loves. She's been doing it for years and years and years. It's in her blood. I'm sure that she has completely twisted everything that has happened, so it seems like she is the "victim". Isn't it funny how she's always the victim?
3. She wants to divert the attention away from herself by posting comments as this mysterious person.
4. But most of all.......the main reason she's doing this is she's got deeper issues. Besides the hatred, jealousy, and hurt she must be feeling...she is one lonely girl. She was banned from Jenn's Forum and now she's trying to get attention on my blog. She doesn't have any friends or anyone real to talk to, so she's writing comments on here just so that she can have people to communicate with. It's really sad. Read the comments over again. You'll see it. It jumps right out at you how she's got no one to talk to. Maybe that's why she likes creating the scams/identities...because she's really just an empty soul that knows she is unloved, unwanted, and completely miserable.
I really felt sorry for her when I first found out. That's why I didn't want to tell anyone at first. Then I realized that she had pulled so many scams on her friends in the past. And if I didn't speak up like everyone else, she would ultimately strike again. Hey, she still might. But I guess it's not really in any of our control. You know, a lot of people might think that we're just wasting our time thinking about this, and they're right. It is a waste of time. But this has affected all of us. If this crap didn't personally involve me, than I would not be so focused on it. And it affects the other girls, too. Most importantly, we are dealing with someone who could potentionally hurt someone we care about...so, no, we can't just pretend it never happened. But what we can do is try to move past it and go on with our lives. The reality of this situation is that she's never going to go away. Her desperate attempts and cries for attention will probably not end. She will continue to comment with her bs, and continue to make a fool out of herself. My advice is to ignore her, because she really isn't worth responding to or getting worked up about. Really.
This is getting to long and I've wasted enough time on her. Just want to say the commenting yesterday actually resulted in me feeling so much love from my family and friends. Thanks so much for all the emails and calls of support. Much love to all of you!
I feel sorry for her friends/family that still care about her, because from her track record it seems as though she will just end up hurting them. Her parents and brother seem really nice. It's awful to know that they somehow might get affected legally if things go to court. It's not even their fault. I know her boyfriend and her boyfriend's family are probably brainwashed as well. They just care about her, just like we all used to. That's why it was so hard for us to believe everything we have heard/seen. Man, I considered this girl as family for awhile there...And for her 2-3 friends, I really wish I could say something reassuring. But we've all been there before and she'll just crush you. If you are still friends with her...be diligent, watch your backs, consistently check your credit, change your SSN. Seriously. This advice was given to me two years ago and I was to naïve to listen.
I guess I should be mad at the drama that she's causing on here, but I'm not. I was furious at first, but then it got really old. And I started feeling apathetic. Besides, I was reading her comments and it's pretty obvious why she's doing this:
1. She is jealous of everybody...especially of her ex-friends that are getting closer to each other. 4 out of the 5 girls that went to Napa were one of her closest friends at one time. It's funny how ALL the pieces have come together. It's scary how much we know...things that we would have never learned if all of this didn't come out.
2. She's got nothing better to do, but to stir up drama. She enjoys twisting the truth. This is what she loves. She's been doing it for years and years and years. It's in her blood. I'm sure that she has completely twisted everything that has happened, so it seems like she is the "victim". Isn't it funny how she's always the victim?
3. She wants to divert the attention away from herself by posting comments as this mysterious person.
4. But most of all.......the main reason she's doing this is she's got deeper issues. Besides the hatred, jealousy, and hurt she must be feeling...she is one lonely girl. She was banned from Jenn's Forum and now she's trying to get attention on my blog. She doesn't have any friends or anyone real to talk to, so she's writing comments on here just so that she can have people to communicate with. It's really sad. Read the comments over again. You'll see it. It jumps right out at you how she's got no one to talk to. Maybe that's why she likes creating the scams/identities...because she's really just an empty soul that knows she is unloved, unwanted, and completely miserable.
I really felt sorry for her when I first found out. That's why I didn't want to tell anyone at first. Then I realized that she had pulled so many scams on her friends in the past. And if I didn't speak up like everyone else, she would ultimately strike again. Hey, she still might. But I guess it's not really in any of our control. You know, a lot of people might think that we're just wasting our time thinking about this, and they're right. It is a waste of time. But this has affected all of us. If this crap didn't personally involve me, than I would not be so focused on it. And it affects the other girls, too. Most importantly, we are dealing with someone who could potentionally hurt someone we care about...so, no, we can't just pretend it never happened. But what we can do is try to move past it and go on with our lives. The reality of this situation is that she's never going to go away. Her desperate attempts and cries for attention will probably not end. She will continue to comment with her bs, and continue to make a fool out of herself. My advice is to ignore her, because she really isn't worth responding to or getting worked up about. Really.
This is getting to long and I've wasted enough time on her. Just want to say the commenting yesterday actually resulted in me feeling so much love from my family and friends. Thanks so much for all the emails and calls of support. Much love to all of you!
Comments:
Post a Comment
